For a perfect session, do your homework!
In addition to being a FemDom, I’m also a perfectionist. And while I know that perfection is rarely possible, excellence is. Of course my interest in perfection / excellence applies to my chosen career as a Phone Sex Mistress. As such, my goal isn’t to give good phone. It isn’t even to give great phone. No, I want to give phenomenal phone — ultimately, I want to end our session knowing that we both got full value for your dollars.
And me being the controlling, dominant type, I’d love to be able to just read your mind like a credit-card swiper and go shopping in the playground of your mind, but I can’t. While I’m not a mind-reader, I am pretty intuitive, and while my intuition rarely guides me wrong, it fails when the person calling me can’t seem to articulate what he or she wants out of our session.
So to facilitate our quest for a supremely satisfying session, I invite you to read the following questions and answer them honestly. Emailing this ‘homework’ to me isn’t mandatory, however, if you want to make sure that we are on the same page, please email me this completed questionnaire the same day you plan to call. We can also go over it on the phone, if you wish.
Perfect Session Questionnaire
1 – On which site did you first see my profile?
2 – What was it about my profile that interested you most?
3 – What name(s) shall I call you? (John, Carl, Robert, boy, girlie, cucky, pathetic, loser, sweetie, baby, poopsie, etc)
4 – What category does the fantasy you want to enact fall under? (ie: bondage, sensual domination, guided masturbation, forced bi, CFNM, CBT, cock control, cuckolding, sissification, erotic humiliation, body worship, teasing and denial, etc)
5 – Does your fantasy involve role-play? If so, please sketch what you have in mind in just a few sentences.
6 – What are your triggers?
- Turn-ons — What magic words or acts make your head spin?
- Turn-offs — What words or acts completely ruin your mood?
7 – What props will you have available during this call?
- Will you wear fetish-gear, panties, sissy outfits?
- Will you have toys like clamps, dildos, floggers, chastity devices?
8 – Will this session involve orgasm denial or ruined orgasm? If yes, I will assume you want me to leave you hard and aching when the call ends unless you tell me otherwise, beforehand.
9 - Do you want to start with conversation or would you prefer to jump right into it? (I enjoy chatting with my clients but I also understand that there are often time constraints and/or financial limitations.)
10 – Perhaps the most important question of them all: How do you like your Domme? (Sensual? Forceful/Commanding? Bitchy? Playful/Teasing? Cruel?)
Lastly, if your satisfaction with this session require serious verbal abuse / humiliation, I’m not the right Mistress for you. Mild erotic humiliation can be a lot of fun and I really enjoy that, but I’m not into hard-core humiliation — its not a part of my vocabulary.
Thank you for reading the 10Qs For A Perfect Session.
Empress Pamela
