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The Multidimensional Mistress

SENSUAL. STERN. SADISTIC.

Three words commonly associated with a dominant Mistress.

Which am I? I am measures of all three but not equally so. I lean very heavily toward sensual domination.  I prefer to control people with pleasure, to slip into their minds and lead them down the garden path. My versatility and intuitiveness means that I [...]

Little Black Dress, Big Black Strap-on

Listen here.
I am a petite brunette with a penchant for little black dresses and big black strap-ons… and, well… guess what I’ve got hiding under that little black dress… Yes! Exactly! Doesn’t it make your cock stand, thinking about me, oh so elegantly dressed, with a strap-on underneath? Can you imagine me rubbing up against [...]

The Secret Life of John and Sara, 17

This is Part Seventeen of The Secret Life of John and Sara, started here.

The Secret Life of John and Sara is based on a true story. I’ve fictionalized it to protect the identities of my friends John and Sara, whose ’secret life’ is secret for a very good reason. John is a Silicon Valley CEO, [...]

The Secret Life of John and Sara, 16

This is Part Sixteen of The Secret Life of John and Sara, started here.

The Secret Life of John and Sara is based on a true story. I’ve fictionalized it to protect the identities of my friends John and Sara, whose ’secret life’ is secret for a very good reason. John is a Silicon Valley CEO, [...]

Recurring Questions for Mistress Pamela

Mistress Pamela answers 10 recurring questions

Q1: What type of Mistress are you?
A1: I am sensual, playful, firm, and occasionally cruel. I tend to ask nicely and carry a big strap-on dick.

Q2: What is your schedule?
A2: I post my schedule on my blog and I use Twitter to broadcast my daily availability, moods, and interests. For [...]

Monday Schedule

So my lunch date has pushed back to afternoon tea and possibly dinner.  I’m here most of the afternoon and then I might be back later in the evening. Catch me while you can!

The Secret Life of John and Sara, 6

This is Part Six of The Secret Life of John and Sara, started here.

The Secret Life of John and Sara is based on a true story. I’ve fictionalized it to protect the identities of my friends John and Sara, whose ’secret life’ is secret for a very good reason. John is a Silicon Valley CEO, [...]

Getting a tan

Empress Pamela has brown legs and feet

Hello from the High Sierras. I’m at 7600 feet right now, rocking on a boat. Its in the high 70’s for temperature, and the wind is just 5 to 10 mph.  The lake has been like glass. We’ve caught a whole string of trout, which will make one [...]

Wanted: a cocksucker for a real man

One of the things I find very interesting is that there are two schools of thought on what a “real woman” is. Some people think a real woman is quiet, respectful, yielding, and nurturing. Others think a real woman is self-expressed, challenging, strong, and protective. But regardless of whether one thinks the feminine ideal is [...]

Last night in Kyoto

Our last night in Kyoto — we walked under the cherry trees at night. They are lighted with lanterns, and here and there people were eating under the trees, particularly near the shrines. I spent some time in the big open air market gathering souvenirs, walking through the geisha district, and mostly relaxing.  We’ve been [...]