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So you think you want to be a submissive: FemDom Pamela talks shop with a cop

Cop: hello Empress, how are you ?
Empress: I am well. And you?
Cop: im feeling a bit delicate right now.. felt like i needed to talk to someone
Empress: I’d be happy to listen, Cop. What’s going on ?
Cop:  im new to this. ive started to feel submissive recently… just [...]

FemDom Pamela spotted at Waikiki!

Hello to all my sissies and strokers. Miss me yet?

For my 25th birthday, my favorite boy got me a few things off my Wish List, including a mini-vacation in Hawaii. Five days of beach and sun and warmth. Mmmm.

I spent part of today on horseback at Kualoa Ranch, enjoying the incredible scenery and rocking in [...]

Controlling the flow of energy: Dominance and submission

For me, Dominance and submission is about the ebb and flow of power. In my world, this exchange is often quite subtle, with a deeply psychological current.  It is about controlling pleasure and pain. It is about giving the submissive permission to have what they really secretly deeply want, even if they can’t ask for [...]

I am NOT a Humiliatrix

So you are looking for someone to humiliate you. Someone who will treat you like bird-shit laden pond scum and tell you what a worthless waste of dickmeat you are. You want hard-core, no-holds-barred verbal abuse falling on your head like divine turds from the ass of a giantess.

Sorry boys and sissies. That’s not me. [...]