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About FemDom Pamela

For those of you who want to get to know me better, here are some details.

I am a bi-sexual alpha female. I am a lifestyle dominant, and I know how to be a Domme without being a bitch. I am one of those rare women with “command presence” — one of those women who walk into a room and own it. And I own it, not just because I am beautiful, well-spoken, and well-dressed, but because I am a Dominant female.  The kind of female you fantasize about.

I am irresistable and I know it. No one I’ve ever wanted has ever turned me down, male or female. I have a way of making people feel like they are the center of the universe, like all eyes are on them and the only ones that matter are mine. My eyes, my voice, my hands, my attention.

My interests are diverse. I attended one of the Seven Sisters women’s colleges where I majored in molecular biology and minored in psychology. Presently, I’m leisurely pursuing a Master’s in Human Sexuality Studies. For pleasure reading, I’m working my way through Mr Feynman’s Lectures on Physics and Jared Diamond’s Guns, Germs, and Steel. In addition to having a fit mind, I believe it is important to have a fit body. For exercise I do weight-training and  fencing, bhangra and belly dancing. I am also into yoga, particularly kundalini and tantra.

I’ve been a practicing Domme both online and in my personal life since my sophomore year at college. I have a diverse wardrobe that includes dozens of pairs of high-heeled shoes and thigh-high boots, garters, stockings, bustiers, corsets, slinky dresses, and filmy nighties. And toys! Oh my, do I have toys. I have chastity devices, dildoes, clamps, clips, rings, floggers, paddles, strap-ons — why, I even have a Sybian. I don’t have a violet wand yet, but it is on my wish list.

In general, I am an accepting and non-judgemental Mistress. Whatever your fetish or kink, I don’t think any less of you for your need, and I certainly don’t think there is anything wrong with you. I understand. It is part of the natural order of things.  I am a Dominant, and so I understand your desire to serve, to surrender control, to do whatever your Mistress tells you do to, no matter how reluctant or humilitated you feel.  I understand, too, that there are two ways of controlling a person–by their pleasure, or by their pain. Which will it be for you?

I am an accomplished cock-tease. Sometimes I pick the unlikeliest men to torment. I enjoy watching their hapless, confuffled expressions shift to dawning delight “My god, she wants me!” I really like it when they stroke for me. And later on, I enjoy their pleading. How delicious to have a man at my mercy, begging to cum, begging for the denial and humiliation to end — even if it ends in a ruined orgasm.

For the cuckolds out there, the ones who fantasize about their women being with other well-endowed men — I have a bigger, better cock. I’ve got a strapless strap-on and I know how to use it — on her.  I do so love seducing a woman and making her man watch as I pleasure her or torment her at my whim. I enjoy watching the realization sink in, the realization that he and his woman are caught in my web of sensual domination and there is no turning back.

I know why you are here. You want to give up control, to be dominated. To be forced to do things you secretly want to do. Perhaps you want to be forced to wear silky soft panties. Perhaps you want to be forced to suck another man’s cock. Perhaps you want to be pegged by a beautiful woman who knows how to own your ass. Perhaps you want to be put over my knee, or put in chastity gear. Or perhaps you just want a woman who knows how to crawl inside your mind and blow it while you are stroking yourself for her.

Whatever your need, there is an intimacy and intensity to phone domination that I enjoy greatly. I look forward to hearing from you, and getting to know you better.

If you want additional information, please read the following blog entries:

Empress Pamela
(800) 601-6975
Empress.Pamela@yahoo.com