SENSUAL. STERN. SADISTIC.
Three words commonly associated with a dominant Mistress.
Which am I? I am measures of all three but not equally so. I lean very heavily toward sensual domination. I prefer to control people with pleasure, to slip into their minds and lead them down the garden path. My versatility and intuitiveness means that I can run with almost any scenario, kink or fetish–except hardcore humiliation. I know there are people who really get off on being demeaned and they’ve begged me to let them have it, but I distinguish between being a Bitch and being a Dominant. If I get off on belittling people, what does that say about me? In my book, it smacks of some deep-set insecurity–making myself feel powerful at someone else’s expense–and that just isn’t me. I know who I am, I know how make people submit–both to me and to their innermost desires. I’m a Dominant who isn’t domineering.
I recently had a conversation with a client about the spider and the fly being an analogy for Female Dominance, and how widely our perspectives vary. He sees FemDoms as spiders who spin webs to trap submissives, who helplessly pull at the strands of the web only to entangle themselves more. I laughed when he told me that. I told him my perspective is: I find a nice quite corner to spin my work of art in, and he bumbles into it, tearing it up with his struggles. If he stopped fighting the trap and thought, he’d probably find a way out, but all his silly flailing about attracts the spider’s attentions — and there are consequences for that, oh yes.
SENSUAL. STERN. SADISTIC. I am all these things, and more. Complex, composed, nuanced. If you are looking for phone sex domination that is multi-dimensional and meets your needs on many levels, give me a call 
Hopefully I’ll talk to you tomorrow.
