So you want to be my slave…

Being a FemDom is like being a rockstar. For most of my adult life I’ve had groupies following me around, willing to do whatever I wanted in exchange for some of my time and attention.

Being an online FemDom is like being a superstar. The number of people hungering for attention from a Domme jumps from dozens in real life to hundreds online.

What I find very peculiar is the number of people online who say “Can I be your slave?” within moments of beginning a conversation. This is so odd to me because those in The Lifestyle don’t take being slaves lightly.  It is a committment of self far beyond simple submission, and Doms are very selective about who they collar.

I understand that for most of you, Dominant and submissive / Mistress and slave are fantasies you live out vicariously with internet and phone FemDoms like myself. But I’m not just a phone FemDom. D/s is a genuine part of my life and while I do play with and train subs, I do not take slaves. Quite simply, they are too much work. Slaves want someone to take over their lives, to tell them what to do, when to do it, and when to stop doing it.  They want someone to do their thinking for them.  And they want attention. They will do anything for attention, even negative attention. Submissives can make my life fun, interesting, easier. Slaves, however — I find slaves a chore, even when they are doing my chores.

So don’t ask to be my slave.  At best you will irritate me, and at worst, I’ll ignore you — which we both know is the worst possible punishment for attention-sluts like you.

See you tomorrow!

Empress Pamela * (800) 601-6975 * Empress.Pamela@yahoo.com