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What is a girl like me doing…

One of the most common questions I get is a variation on the classic “What is a girl like you doing in a place like this?”

PegMe: There is something I don’t get about you.
Empress.Pamela: Oh? What is that?
PegMe: Arent you too smart for this job?
Empress.Pamela: *laugh* Too smart to be a FemDom?  Or too smart [...]

Cockteasing cock tales

So I’ve mentioned my love of strap-on play, and feminization, but I’ve not really mentioned one of my favorite things: plain old-fashioned cock-teasing.

I’ve been aware of my power over males since I was 12 years old, and I’ve been teasing them ever since. And oh, the things I’ve gotten men to do for me! [...]

Running down memory lane pt 2

Running down memory lane part 1

I know you’ve been letting your imaginations run wild, wondering what it was that happened between me and Dominic that weekend. What could happen that would eliminate a recurring dream that both terrified and aroused him?

Well, first you need to understand that Dominic considers himself a cocksman.  He’s great in [...]

Running down Memory Lane

It was the Bay to Breakers Marathon this weekend, and I had friends visiting to participate in the run with me. One of them was an old lover from college, whom I will call Dominic. This old friend is East Coast Italian. He is lean, dark, and dangerous-looking. In fact, he’s been told he could [...]

So you want to be my slave…

Being a FemDom is like being a rockstar. For most of my adult life I’ve had groupies following me around, willing to do whatever I wanted in exchange for some of my time and attention.

Being an online FemDom is like being a superstar. The number of people hungering for attention from a Domme jumps from [...]

Submissive but afraid of strap-ons?

I had an interesting conversation with a submissive the other day.  He feels that he has a small penis that is inadequate to the task of giving a woman real pleasure during intercourse, so he likes to be dominated, made to serve, made to service and worship a woman orally. After he has pleased a [...]

Schedule updated

I’ve updated my availability schedule here, so you have a better chance to catch me. I’ll also see about getting one of those widgets added to my blog that shows when I’m available/busy/offline.

Looking forward to hearing from you

I’m back!  I’ve been away for a month! Japan was intense, amazing,  and overwhelmingly foreign. I had some incredible experiences in Japan, both vanilla and D/s.  My companion on the trip is a Switch so we kept each other busy and satisfied. However, I could have done without the flu bug I brought home with [...]