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I am NOT a Humiliatrix

So you are looking for someone to humiliate you. Someone who will treat you like bird-shit laden pond scum and tell you what a worthless waste of dickmeat you are. You want hard-core, no-holds-barred verbal abuse falling on your head like divine turds from the ass of a giantess.

Sorry boys and sissies. That’s not me. I recommend you try Mistress Sarah, who truly loves doing small penis humiliation and other types of verbal demolition. Or try any of the women at PhoneHumiliation.com and IwillHumiliateYou.com who truly specialize in this sort of thing.

Now, don’t get me wrong — I enjoy erotic humiliation. I don’t mind embarassing and humiliating you, making you squirm — in fact love that — but I just don’t get off on tearing other people down. There are Mistresses out there who enjoy turning men into trained monkeys willing to do any humiliating thing for their amusement. I’m not that kind of Dominant. In my world, the submissive is not in any way diminished by submitting — I do not think submission should be a demeaning experience, in general, but rather, an affirmation of the natural order of things. Yes, I know you want to be controlled, objectified, made abject. I know you desire to experience the enticing dissonance that arises as you feel pressured to step outside your comfort zone in order to please your Mistress. But I also know that you want to feel important to someone, that you want to be cherished, to be valued for who you are, deep down inside, with your submissive tendencies, kinks, fetishes, warts and all. I am a benevolent, magnanimous Mistress, and I can be that someone who watches over you, whom you trust implicitly, and whose instructions you follow because you know that in the end it is for your own good.

In essence, I am a Sensualist, not a Sadist. What does that mean? I prefer to control you via pleasure, rather than pain.  In order to control a person you really only need access to one of two spheres. The sphere of pleasure, or the sphere of pain.  I prefer to control via the presence–or absence–of pleasure.  I even enjoy disciplining. But I’m not into psychological abuse. I don’t derive any pleasure from it, and since I generally do what I want to do and avoid doing what I don’t want to do, don’t call me asking for a hard-core  humiliation session.  Neither of us will enjoy it.

Those of you out there who are looking for someone with great imagination to tease you, arouse you,  control your cocks and clits,  take you by the hand and help you find the courage to explore your sexual desires, control your pleasure and your  pain, and bind you to her with silken ties of mutual interests and respect, then call me.  I promise you’ll end your session feeling far better than you did when we started.

I leave you with two of my favorite quotes by Marquis de Sade:

“Sex” is as important as eating or drinking and we ought to allow the one appetite to be satisfied with as little restraint or false modesty as the other.

The imagination is the spur of delights… all depends upon it, it is the mainspring of everything; now, is it not by means of the imagination one knows joy? Is it not of the imagination that the sharpest pleasures arise?

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