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Bondage and strap-ons

I’ll be working shorter hours today due to vacation-related preparations.  Look for me from 4pm to 9pm EST.

I’ve really been enjoying my client calls this week.  One that really stands out was a call from a sweet man who said he wanted me to visit him in his hotel room, tie him up and do [...]

FemDom Pamela is on Twitter

Hello my lovelies!

This is just a quick post to let you know that you can keep up with me on Twitter: http://twitter.com/FemDomme FemDom Pamela

You have until Wednesday April First to get your phone-sex fix before I head off to Japan for a couple of weeks.

Delicious Torments

I heard from my “Morning Wood” caller. Thanks for the comment, John I’d love to get more comments and testimonials from those of you I’ve spoken with — How was your session?

Thanks to my “Thursday is Hers Day” clients.  I had a lot of fun! Lets do it again sometime soon!

I also wanted [...]

Thursday is “Hers Day”

Thursday is “Hers Day” — the day you can be mine.

Podcast of Thursday is \”Hers Day\” by Mistress Pamela

If you are reading my blog, you know a bit about me.  You know what I look like. You know I’ve got class, that I know how to dress (the black one is Armani), and that I [...]

Morning Wood

So I had a call recently that was a lot of fun. A client called straight from bed one morning. He had that delicious sleepy voice and I asked him if he still had his morning wood. To my delight, he answered that he did. When I asked him what he was interested in, he [...]

Thinking about strap-on FemDoms?

I’ve taken the day off the phones but I am still ‘working’ so to speak, and I’m pleased to say that I’m joining a group of women who specialize in strap-on role-play at StraponFemDommes.com.

My bio there states:

I know you. You think you are not known. You think you are not understood. You think no one [...]

Looking for excitement in Wai-kinky

He watched me from the table nearby, a sinewy Japanese man accompanying two boys in their late teens.  I’m not sure why he picked me to watch. I wasn’t the only woman in the hotel’s restaurant wearing a just bikini and a sarong, and certainly there were women there who were far lovelier than me. [...]

So you think you want to be a submissive: FemDom Pamela talks shop with a cop

Cop: hello Empress, how are you ?
Empress: I am well. And you?
Cop: im feeling a bit delicate right now.. felt like i needed to talk to someone
Empress: I’d be happy to listen, Cop. What’s going on ?
Cop:  im new to this. ive started to feel submissive recently… just [...]

FemDom Pamela spotted at Waikiki!

Hello to all my sissies and strokers. Miss me yet?

For my 25th birthday, my favorite boy got me a few things off my Wish List, including a mini-vacation in Hawaii. Five days of beach and sun and warmth. Mmmm.

I spent part of today on horseback at Kualoa Ranch, enjoying the incredible scenery and rocking in [...]

Controlling the flow of energy: Dominance and submission

For me, Dominance and submission is about the ebb and flow of power. In my world, this exchange is often quite subtle, with a deeply psychological current.  It is about controlling pleasure and pain. It is about giving the submissive permission to have what they really secretly deeply want, even if they can’t ask for [...]